Starting childcare is a big milestone, for everyone involved. The first day comes with excitement, nerves, and a quiet kind of chaos. But it doesn’t have to be messy. A clear packing list and a simple drop-off plan can take the edge off and help day one feel grounded rather than overwhelming.
This is a practical guide to what to pack for the first day of childcare, plus a few calm, realistic tips to help drop-off go smoothly.
What to pack for day one of childcare
When it comes to the first day of childcare, packing ahead of time can make a big difference. Having everything prepared the night before helps avoid last-minute stress and rushed mornings. While every early learning centre has slightly different requirements, most childcare packing lists follow the same general structure.
What to pack for babies (0–18 months)
Babies tend to need a little more on day one, especially when routines are still forming. Your childcare centre will guide you on specifics, but most families are asked to pack the following:
- Multiple changes of clothes
- Nappies and wipes
- Bottles, formula, or breast milk as required
- Comfort items such as a dummy or soft toy
- Baby sunscreen or skincare products, if your child has sensitive skin
What to pack for toddlers (18 months+)
For toddlers, packing is usually simpler, but independence and mess come into play.
Expect to pack:
- A change of clothes
- Training pants or spare underwear if toilet training
- A comfort item for rest time
- Food, drink bottles, or lunch boxes if required
- Clearly labelled hats, shoes, and personal items
Sensitive skin and personal care items
If your child has sensitive skin or allergies, check whether your centre supplies sunscreen, nappy cream, or wipes. Many families choose to pack their own approved products to avoid reactions, especially in the early days.
What to pack for childcare: the checklist
To take the guesswork out of packing, we’ve put together a first day of childcare checklist focused on the essentials.
Download our “First Day of Childcare Packing" Checklist
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How to prepare for a smooth first day of childcare
Packing the bag is only one part of preparing for the first day. A calm, confident approach to drop-off can help your child settle more easily and feel safe in their new environment.
Here are some simple tips to help prepare for the first day of childcare.
1. Arrive a little early
If possible, allow extra time on the first day. Arriving early helps avoid feeling rushed and gives both you and your child a chance to ease into the morning.
2. Stay calm and positive
Children often pick up on their parents’ emotions. Keeping your tone relaxed and reassuring can help your child feel more secure. Talking positively about the day ahead can also make a big difference.
3. Help your child get familiar
Take a few minutes to show your child where their bag goes, where they will play, and who will be caring for them. Familiarity helps new spaces feel less intimidating.
4. Keep goodbyes short
A brief, loving goodbye is usually best. Long farewells can increase anxiety for both parent and child. A hug, a kiss, and a simple reassurance can help make the transition smoother.
5. Expect some emotions
It's completely normal for children to cry during drop-off, especially in the early days. Educators are experienced in helping children settle, and most little ones calm down shortly after parents leave.
6. Create a consistent goodbye routine
A predictable goodbye routine can help children feel more comfortable over time. This might be a special phrase, a wave, or a comfort item brought from home.
7. Use trial or orientation sessions
If your childcare centre offers trial sessions, these can be helpful for both children and parents. They allow everyone to become familiar with the environment and daily routines before the official first day.
8. Look after yourself too
The first drop-off can be emotional. Taking a moment for yourself afterwards can help you adjust to the new routine just as much as your child is. Grab a coffee or a hot chocolate from your favourite cafe, and just take ten minutes (or more!) to sit with your feelings and be present.
You did it.
Download our first day checklist
Getting ready for childcare is easier when you know you’ve covered the basics. When the essentials are sorted, you have space to focus on supporting your child through this important transition.
Download our first day checklist
