Our two year old daughter came home one day and told us that a teacher had struck her. She was able to name the teacher, used the word “snapping,” and demonstrated what she meant by slapping her own forearm. We asked her about this over the following three days, without leading or prompting, and she described the same thing each time.
We reported this through the appropriate channels at the daycare. They reassured us but the subsequent investigation process was opaque and poorly managed. We were not kept informed at any stage even though we followed up multiple times ourselves - something that should not have been our responsibility.
We were also led to believe in our initial interview with the investigator that the teacher would not be cleared to return. He mentioned that the case would be considered on the 'balance of probabilities' and that it would take something relatively definitive to overturn my daughter's account. He also said in his experience in cases like this the teacher is usually dismissed. This became our anchor point and the reason we started sending our daughter back while the investigation was ongoing.
Despite this, the teacher has been cleared to return. We were informed that the evidence was “unsubstantiated,” even though it included a clear and consistent account from a two-year-old (which was recorded on video).
We only became aware of the outcome by chance, after noticing the teacher’s photo had been placed back on the room door. When we raised this with the centre manager, we were told that she had intended to inform us but had been too busy. This alone demonstrates the lack of seriousness with which both the incident and our concerns were treated.
While there are some excellent educators at the centre, we have been incredibly let down by the management and by the handling of this process. As a result, we no longer feel confident entrusting our child to their care and have withdrawn her from the centre.
Response from the owner
08 Apr 2026
We are sorry this has been a distressing experience for your family.
We take concerns about children’s safety seriously and review them carefully. Concerns raised by children and families are formally investigated. We understand you are unhappy with the outcome and with how the matter was communicated, and we are sorry for the distress this has caused.
If you would like to discuss this further, please contact the centre directly.